3-Minute Simple Check-In Time needed
Time needed: 3 minutes (60 seconds each)
Setting: Any quiet moment
Purpose: Gently reconnecting with yourself and your current state
How Am I Right Now? (60 seconds)
What: Sit comfortably. Place one hand on heart, one on belly. Take three slow breaths. Ask yourself simply: “How am I doing right now?” Wait for whatever answer comes - no judgment, just noticing
Notice: First response that arises, where you feel it in body, any surprises about your actual state
Why: Builds self-awareness, interrupts autopilot, honors current reality
What Do I Need? (60 seconds)
What: Staying with hand placement, ask: “What do I most need in this moment?” Listen for body’s answer. It might be rest, movement, connection, space, water, kindness - anything. Let the need be simple and true
Notice: Difference between what you “should” need and what you actually need, where authentic needs live, any permission required
Why: Reconnects with genuine needs, reduces shoulds, guides next action
One Small Yes (60 seconds)
What: Choose one tiny thing you can do right now or very soon to meet that need. Make it so small it feels completely doable. Imagine doing it. Commit to it
Notice: What feels genuinely supportive, any resistance to self-care, relief in having small clear action
Why: Moves from awareness to action, makes self-care concrete, builds self-trust
Closing: One breath saying “I’m here, I’m listening”
Notice: How simply checking in affects your state
Why: Honors practice of self-connection
Tips:
- No right answers
- Trust what emerges
- Keep actions tiny
- Repeat whenever needed
- Just showing up matters