2-Minute Self-Compassion for Tiredness
Time needed: 2 minutes (40-40-40 seconds)
Setting: When exhausted or depleted
Purpose: Offering yourself kindness in moments of fatigue
Acknowledge with Kindness (40 seconds)
What: Recognize your tiredness without judgment:
- Place hand on heart or another comforting spot
- Say gently "I notice I'm really tired right now"
- Let yourself feel the weight of exhaustion without pushing it away
- Whisper "It's okay to be tired"
Notice: Any urge to criticize yourself for being tired, how acknowledgment feels different from fighting fatigue, where kindness wants to land in your body
Why: Validates experience, reduces resistance to tiredness, creates foundation for self-compassion
Connect to Common Humanity (40 seconds)
What: Remember you're not alone in tiredness:
- Think "Everyone gets tired sometimes"
- Imagine others who are also tired right now
- Remember that tiredness is part of being human, not personal failure
- Send gentle wishes to all tired people: "May we all find rest"
Notice: How universal tiredness feels vs personal inadequacy, connection to shared human experience, any softening when you remember others feel this too
Why: Reduces isolation, normalizes tiredness, builds compassionate perspective
Offer Yourself Comfort (40 seconds)
What: Give yourself what you need right now:
- Ask "What would feel most comforting?"
- Choose one tiny nurturing action (gentle touch, kind words, glass of water, closing eyes)
- Speak to yourself like you would a tired friend
- Give permission to rest or move slower
Notice: What comfort feels most needed, how self-kindness affects your energy, difference between pushing through vs caring for yourself
Why: Provides immediate relief, practices self-nurturing, models healthy response to tiredness
Closing: "I'm being kind to myself in this tired moment"
Notice: How self-compassion changes your relationship to exhaustion
Why: Anchors compassionate response to fatigue
Tips:
- Tiredness deserves compassion, not criticism
- Small acts of self-kindness matter
- You can be tired and still worthy of care
- Self-compassion often restores energy more than pushing through